How to keep going back to that job you hate.

I know what its like, you have spent so much time and money, sacrificed opportunities with friends and family, and put yourself in debt, all with the hope and expectation that this will lead to something better; to that particular lifestyle that you have decided on. But right now all you have to show for it are student loans, some old textbooks, and a job that’s not in your field, which took you over six months to find. You’re beginning to resent that degree and all that you have spent in the accomplishment. You have been looking for that entry-level position that would get you where you want, but in this economy the employer is overwhelmed with numerous qualified applicants. Despite its undesirable elements, all in all your job isn’t completely bad, even though it’s a crappy entry level position its pretty easy, it pays OK and you use your degree… somewhat. But it’s not what you want to settle for. So, now what? How do we continue this work when we dislike it so much?

Well, here are some things that I’ve been trying out and considering (in no particular order) to open up my options and keep me hopeful. Please feel free to add to it, or provide comments with your own experiences.

1 – Volunteer. I know how its sounds, but you can find some great opportunities. The good thing about volunteering is that when the labor is free, people are pretty much willing to place you anywhere and everywhere. It gives you the hands on experience (and understanding) that will put you ahead of other applicants the next time around. Its an opportunity to really get out there and do those things you went to school for. You can work in an environment to practice and refine your skills, and gives you an opportunity to network with individuals in the same or related fields. For many, it is also an opportunity to decide whether or not you really want to be in that field.

2 – Adjust your attitude. Attitude is everything. Even though we may not like our jobs, we still have to be there and do well. It would be nice to have this place as a business reference, especially if this is your first or second job. Your attitude not only dictates how others will treat you, but also influences how you act and react to daily snags and hurdles.

3 – Talk to your supervisor. Sometimes letting your supervisor know that you are ready and willing to take on more duties and responsibilities is all you need to do. In return, he or she should be able to provide feedback about your performance. If you feel comfortable enough to express your areas of interest then your supervisor may be able to give you some responsibilities in that area.

4 –Hmmm... Perhaps this is a time to reconsider what it is you want. Maybe corporate research is not your game, or anywhere near your game. So now what? Maybe you haven’t been searching the appropriate field. What if you tried looking for more socially interactive positions like Public Relations or Journalist? Or even something less interactive such as a writer? Usually, a company will open up a position internally before posting it publicly. Check the job board or talk to your supervisor and HR about positions that you could work to move up to.

5 – Dare I even say it? Maybe you should consider going back to school… (don’t hit me!). Graduate study is of course a wonderful option, and more and more becoming a necessity. But, if you don’t want to spend any more time or money right now then community college is a great choice that could put you ahead of the crowd. Learning another language, or getting a certificate may turn things around for you.

6 - Sieze the Day. It’s a well known fact that work just sucks, so maybe patience is all you need. We all have to stick it out for a while. Most jobs take some time before you actually enjoy working there, the workplace typically has its own unique personality. It took me about a year to really get to know and enjoy my job. It’s basically like a schizoprenic - not to disregard or make fun of any mental health patients, but the workplace is a single environment where you encounter several levels of personalities that it embodies. This doesn’t apply to all companies of course, but there are several out there that are just vicious. It takes a lot of patience and understanding to get to know it.

7 – Remember you. With all the economic hardships we are facing, and the sacrifices we are making its touch to decide between what we want and what we’ll settle for. I know its unfortunate but its not altogether destitute. Like I stated previously, the environment is likely to get better. But even if it doesn’t for a while, you will still have your updated resume floating out there trying to reach your dream job. And when your job does get better just remember what it is that you want and don’t want, because just as you knew before that there was something out there for you, something still is out there for you that will make you happy, all you have to do is remember what that is.

8 – Don’t take it so seriously. Its just work. There’s really no need to get wrapped up in the workplace dramas and nonsense that can occur. Sometimes you just need to say to yourself (inner monologue) “to hell with it” and continue on with the day and your job as though everything is fine.

Like I said, attitude is everything. You can use this opportunity to gain some meaningful and valuable experience, and spend your free time doing those things that interest you. When a better opportunity opens up for you, will have professional and possibly practical experience and an employer who may be willing to provide you a raving recommendation.